The Catskill Chronicle

Twice Divorced – By Grayce Goin

Dear Twice Divorced,

My ex and I work for the same company, and so, of course, we run into each other fairly often. We’re civil, but really have no reason to talk at length. Some of my co-workers are making comments to me, and behind my back, wondering how I can continue to work at a place where I have to face my former spouse every day. It’s none of their business, of course, but what can I do to defuse this tense situation?

Tired of the  Comments

Dear Tired,

Co-workers are causing tension because you and your ex work at the same company? Every one of these people is in serious need of a life. There is not much you can do about them talking about you on the sly, but your reaction to their comments can certainly put an end to their direct sniping. One response you might try is “I’m so sorry this bothers you so much when she/he and I are comfortable  with the situation.” Or, if the person making the comment is single: “He/she is as free as a bird, don’t let my presence stop you from going after him/her.”

When they see they are no longer eliciting the desired response they should back off. If not, just ignore them – no response at all will certainly get the message across.

Be well

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